All posts for the month March, 2014

On Scamming Findoms And What They Say About Femdom

Brace yourself, I may bloviate a lot here. After a discussion on fetlife about malesubs being irked at all the scammy women demanding money just for declaring themselves to be dominants, or to consider a guy’s submission. If you’ve been living under a rock, this is a thing. It’s a thing far more than the […]

How I Learned Modesty

So, me, the blogging exhibitionist, developed a sense of physical modesty to enhance my sex life. As an experiment, it not only proved completely possible, but I’m finding I’m enjoying the results. This may seem like the exact opposite of a positive step for someone who values sexual frankness and freedom- after all, “modesty” tends […]

The Scars That Contain and the Scars That Sustain

Today I’m going to talk about scars. Not the flesh kind that give the physical body its unique character and where an injury didn’t quite correct itself on the skin, but where the scar is ripped or worn into your psyche. Reading based on stereotypes, it’s not a ‘done’ thing to be a dominant and […]