Daily Femdom Life and My D/s Neighbour Couple & Cuckolding

I’m house sitting. It’s a welcome vacation, for a person who likes to get a change of scenery from time to time. I tell people I like travel and they think I mean exotic locations and museums, and I have a passport stamped with a dozen far flung places.

I mean I like hotels and mass transit, and airports and bus stations. And staying in the Cuckolds’ house. I talked about them before, I think, Professor Sub and his fiancée. They’re making the most of the waning summer, and seeing as we’re a close commute now, the male and sub half of the couple has given me custody of their apartment and cherished pet while they jetted off for three days holiday.

It’s nice, the normality of this. To care for their pet, and smirk at the subtext in the pictures in their hall. To come over in a bad mood and be plied with a Caesar, and break into an impromptu tutorial on face slapping. Single submissive men, life ain’t fair. My friend has two women slapping that smug look off his face.

I really am close friends a sissy cuckold and his hot wife. Although the cuckold part is being hampered, at least a little bit, by the teeny, weeny little detail that finding a “bull” is easier said than done.

They’re not the only couple with that problem in my life. The Mr Sub and Ballbuster are also looking for a bull and hitting the same wall- how do you find someone you feel safe and comfortable with, that you also feel attracted to, to make into a fuck buddy in a way that both parts of the couple can get off on it?

Strong keeps trying to encourage me to get laid for other reasons, and it again hits the same problem, although he doesn’t want me to cuckold him (or if he does he’s not admitting it) as much as a desire which borders on martyrdom to help me achieve sexual fulfillment.  There is a paucity of nice, respectful no strings men. Add that if you’re a dom woman you often don’t want the classic aggressive Bull anywhere near your bed, and you’re going to end up just like all those M/f couples looking for their unicorn-girl to finish their family.

But I guess this is also living the BDSM “lifestyle” at its best. So there’s that.

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  1. I’m lookin. For a domme at lease one so I can be of use .

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    • Well Gregory, have you looked into some of my earlier posts? I write a bit about meeting and getting along with dominant women there. 🙂

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  2. pinecone

     /  August 20, 2013

    Sub guy here.

    Regarding your point about not looking for the porno-typical aggressive guy to cuckold your partner with, I think what turns me off most about the cuckolding fetish is the guy being dominant. It’s probably the same reason why I can’t sub to a switch. Women in submissive roles and men in dominant roles turn me off.

    I’m still not turned on by the idea of being cheated on, but i don’t think it would be as hard a limit for me as it is now if my dom wanted to seek out sub guys for that sort of thing.

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    • Hey, for me as a dominant who is also a sadomasochist I also have to balance that in the opposite direction. If I let a guy take the top role, his psychology also matters- although I don’t direct the guy about (I think I’m into an ambiguous F/m dynamic, to be frank) there’s very much a topping-from-the-bottom aspect for me.

      But it means rejecting a lot of men who need to mix full bore dominance with their sadism. I also don’t think cuckolding is a must- it’s not a fetish for me even when I’m feeling slutty.

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