Hello there,
Is sounds like you are trying to ask the following:
- How to find a domme, mistress, mommy, goddess, dominatrix, femdom, etc…
- How do I get trained to be a submissive, sub, slave, pet, etc…
This question is regularly asked and if I were to take time to answer every email/DM with the detail requested, I would probably be able to spend a couple of hours a week just helping mentor and direct newbies. In an ideal, post scarcity space communist future I could dedicate my whole life to being a sex therapist.
However, we live in a capitalist hellscape. And one thing that I have learned after literally hundreds of messages about that topic, literally every single person who has asked has not done any research on how to find a domme, beyond maybe making a fetlife or reddit account and looking at some porn.
As such, future persons wanting me to assess and coach them are encouraged to sign up to the $50 tier of my patreon, and I will happily take the time to your specific case and give you a detailed reply.
For $150, you can get an hour of my time to discuss through your thoughts, feelings, specific needs, etc…
Please note, I am not a certified sex educator, and while I promise to make a good faith effort to assist you, I also won’t lie to you if you are trying to do something that is functionally impossible.
If you feel this is unfair, well, I don’t have a monopoly on this information, try pursuing any number of the free resources available to you?