November is prostate cancer and men’s health, diabetes and national novel writing month. It’s also the first quiet period I’ve had in a long time. Thus begins the month of Pearl Not Doing Things.
A major vanilla project I’m working on has started to wind down. I’ve dealt with the whole (alleged) serial rapist in the community and pitched a friend from my social group for less severe but definitely horrible things. Those of you that follow me on social media know it was an intense experience that drained a lot of my energy. That and I’ve got one of those persistent low grade health thingees that I need to spend some Canadian Healthcare on. And I was a bridesmaid, which did not entirely agree with me for various reasons mostly to do with being surrounded by happy other people’s families makes me sad mine sucks.
My job has suffered around all that, and I kind of need to focus harder on it. Bleh.
That being said, it hasn’t been all bad. Phantom review sent me a lovely package. You guys were incredibly supportive through the Herr Kommandandt thing and made a serious difference to getting the word out.
But I’m very, very tired, so I am taking the remainder of this month to catch up. I’ll still be on social media but I am adamantly refusing to organize any parties outside the pre-scheduled monthly munch, or worry about accomplishing anything with any sort of plan, deadline or performance expectation. Of course 99% of this is just removing hiatus guilt, since this blog has never been on any sort of sensible schedule, but I’m hoping to do crafts, read novels and if I write or make art, have it be for fun.
Although a part of me is super excited to start cleaning my apartment. Because of course that’s the kind of weirdo I am.
Oh and I want to make more time to actually have sex and less time to writing about it, or scolding people for being terrible about consent.
… I freely admit that about a week in and I’m still getting “omg I need to be USEFUL” jitters and trying to find something to plan and work on.
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Remember, it’s not lazyness unless you’re deliberately ignoring things you need to do. Not picking up additional responsibilities doesn’t make you lazy, especially if you can’t handle them at the moment.
You had a completely insane October, the most “useful” thing you can do now is recharge your batteries. Here’s hoping the jitters calm down and you can enjoy a guilt free month of recovering. 😀