All posts tagged feminism

On Scamming Findoms And What They Say About Femdom

Brace yourself, I may bloviate a lot here. After a discussion on fetlife about malesubs being irked at all the scammy women demanding money just for declaring themselves to be dominants, or to consider a guy’s submission. If you’ve been living under a rock, this is a thing. It’s a thing far more than the […]

Queen Hatshepsut’s Strapon, “Penis Envy”, Penetration & Me

I like my strapon harness. It’s made out of sporty materials so I can just run it through the washing machine, and the O-ring system gives me a great ability to adapt. Putting stuff into people’s orifices is fun. I like penetrating people and pegging them. Of course, because I’m also unable to have sex […]

Why Feminism and BDSM Go Together Well

Oh Noes, Feminisms! Red Alert! Say feminism, and 95% of your audience battens down their hatches like you said “hurricane”, or finds something else suddenly very, very interesting. Like the carpet, or their own shoes, or that urgent appointment they just remembered to alphabetically file all the food in their pantry. At least, as a […]

Windows to the Soul

I feel happy when I can take care of stuff by myself. So I went out and fetched myself a ladder from the hardware store so I could safely change a lightbulb or two. Because I am short and have poor balance (my Mummy says I’m top heavy ‘cuz of all the brains), I reasoned […]

Evo-psych? (And ranting)

Rant time, skip if you don’t wanna see my whine about internet strangers. I’m normally pretty Pollyanna about how all the sexualties can get along, but then some earnest person posts this, on /r/bdsmcommunity, about getting the mainstream to accept kink. Fourth, bdsm in all its many forms is base. It is primal. That is […]

What Would Fantasies of Female Dominance Look Like Without Sexism?

┬áThis isn’t a post about abolishing sexism, it’s about female dominance and power in an imbalanced world. Unfortunately, the sexes are not treated equally in society at large. I’m not really prepared to debate this fact in some sort of “choice to be powerless” or “so what if you don’t have power, you have boobs […]