Miss Pearl’s Elust 167

Oops! Everything old is new again, and the webring of yesteryear is back – now run courtesy of blogger Oz

You might have seen me participate in this a few times already, and honestly I really enjoy the reminder that sex blogging as a community is still at it. (Also I remembered to (re)post this in a timely fashion, this time, oops!) If you are a blogger in the sex and/or erotic space, this is one of the easiest ways to make sure you get shared since as you might notice, everything listed below covers the gamut, from tox reviews and erotica, to how to guides.

If you want to get in on it, the link to participate is here, and the first three people to remember to participate in the (re)post part (not me) are compensated with a prize.

Product Reviews

Beating Expectations With A Panty Vibrator

The panty-vibe is almost a cliche like the fluffy handcuffs, everyone associates with entry level BDSM, but a Leap of Faith seems to be having a great time with hers.

Review of the Joi Thrust by Honeyplaybox

Thrusting toys seem to be getting much better at it than they used to, and this one apparently hit the spot, as detailed in this review by Liz X Likes.

The Hottest Vibe of the Year! See the Snail Curve in Action

Betty’s Toy Box has a think for the Snail Curve.

Review: Magic Wand Micro

Today I learned, through this review, the Magic Wand (also know as a hitachi from the old brand) now comed in a wee pocket size version. But does it pack the same punch?

Midnight Menagerie Teufl

A review of a knotted, pale blue fantasy dildo, as well as an overview of the maker.

The Best Fucking Machine to Buy in 2023

Sextoydb looks at the merits of fucking machines at different price points. As you might gather from the reviews, you cannot skimp on your options.

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

The Joy of Sex for Menopausal Women: How to Reignite the Flame

Buzz Vibes has some recommended products and selfcare tips for keeping your sext life going for folks, who by age or surgery, have shut down the whole uterus and hormone cycle.

Home for the Polydays

Laura Boyle riffs on how to navigate the complexity of blended poly family, over a holiday period, particularly all the pitfalls that mgiht come with it.

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Maintenance Spanking: Why and How To Add It To Your Relationship

I am such a damn fangirl for Silkenclaws. She’s a great contributor for a forum I moderate and regularly produces great, informational content. The post title is self explanatory and the detail is exactly the depth needed for the topic.

Erotic Fiction

Red Panties and Purple Passions

And F/m and forced bi story, with a bit of cross dressing and cuckolding thrown in for good measure.

Bedroom Eyes 30

A male/female couple dominate and dehumanize a consenting female slave.

Books and Movies

Queer, Kinky, Poly Dracula And Its (Mis)Readings Hey, I wrote this one!

Walk All Over Me (2007): The Celluloid Dungeon A Canadian film reviewed by another Vancouver resident- where the film is set! This reviewer is a longstanding local fixture so it’s fun to cross paths like this.

Sex Work

Come to Dubai Habibi

This is an ad letting you know about someone’s travel tour. As long as Canada doesn’t make this illegal, I feel comfortable sharing this sort of thing. 😀

Locktober Special

Locktober is like Femdom Christmas, and Lady Phoenix shares her experience with the four subs she celebrated the month worth.

Kink: Prostate massage

Mina Fontana wants you to know that she’s open to opening you for some (paid) kinky prostate play. Like many professionals, she wants to make sure you understand the experience.

On Promises

Lousia Knight’s site is, unfortunately offline- can’t summarize this post, but hopefully she is back soon!

Facility X Dungeon

A quick review of a positive experience Sandra had at Facility X, a London, UK based dungeon.


SexworkerSear.ch sounds the alarm about a recent change to Google’s algorithm that may be deliberately burying people’s efforts to find geolocated (or really any) adult services. And believe me, this isn’t just a commercial side problem- but something that can have a major impact on lifestyle only kinksters and queer folk, as well.

The F-Machine Gigolo Fucking Machine

Hellga, self styled “Lady in Latex” wants to share how much she enjoys her fucking machine.

Welcome to Elust 160

eLust image, a blonde woman in a sparkly grey gown sits on a starcase
Image courtesy of Anneke Van Buren.

Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month.

Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions, it’ll be here at Elust.

Congratulations Tiger Lily Toys, winner of the Elust contest for March. I hope you enjoy your £50 GBP Bondara



Product reviews

Strap-On-Me P&G Spot Dildo Review

Review Of The Equestrian Leather Cat O’nine Tails Flogger By Liebe Seele

Lonesome Dragon- Sex Swings

Erotic Fiction

The Masked Stranger

Bedroom Eyes 24

Quickies: My Stepbrother Secretly Banged Me In The Basement

Alone Now


Writing about Writing

I’m Now Doing Kinky Comic Books!

Erotic Non Fiction

Become A Queen For The Day

Gravity and Kitchens

Sissifying Sammie

A Medicinal Blow Job in Winslow, Arizona

Sex Work

Sissy Forced Bi at Facility X Dungeon

Kinky Girlfriend Experience

A Wee Spanking in Scotland

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

DIY Sex Dungeon- Turn Your Home Into an Adult Playground

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

From Hand To Mouth And Beyond

e[lust] #53 -I’m in it!

We (and by we I mean me) decided to try the e[lust] thing everyone else is doing. It’s very interesting because it’s generally writing for women and by women- although just to warn long term readers, not everything there is femdom- enjoy!

Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust].  Want to be included in e[lust] #54? Start with the newly updated rules, come back January 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~


Do Not Consent

Found poem – UR so SXY

Kink is not a dirty word!


~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Being not doing; a thought about labels.

Take It For Daddy



~ Readers Choice from  Sexbytes ~

(All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. )

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