All posts tagged caretaking

When Kink Limits Change & More Caretaking Challenges

I encountered a really tough problem recently on reddit: My sub’s ingratitude is destroying our relationship. I took him under my wing. When I met him, he was another college drop-out with no body to speak of. Thanks to my guidance, he now has a good job, goes to gym regularly and looks his best. […]

The Darker Side Of Caretaking

After a conversation with a friend about the challenges that we face in relationships, I’m going to talk about something I’m not good at. Which is to say, letting go with other people in a way that gets my needs met. At it’s best, my penchant for caretaking is a good thing that is inherently rewarding for […]

I’m A Domestic Dominant

If it is really mine, I want to  care for it. If he is my property, he is, like a pet or another thing I like, just as much there to nurture as to please me. And I really, really like looking after people in a domestic and care taking sense. This can be a […]