BDSM Advice and How Tos For The New And Curious

BDSM Advice For Female Dominants

Whether learning the ropes is literal or figurative, every person has to start somewhere. Keep in mind I am not a certified sex educator, medical professional, or anything other than a dominant with a platform. All I can tell you is what works for me, so take all BDSM advice contained here with that caveat.

BDSM Advice For Submissives (Mostly Oriented Towards F/m)

Those helpful articles written to help subs figure out how to get what they want.

Reader Letters

Questions you asked and I did my best to answer. Often highly specific scenarios.

General BDSM Advice

BDSM advice that applies to everyone, for getting about the scene, for talking with people about your kinks and getting stuff done.

Frequently Asked Beginner Questions

BDSM advice for the absolute novice, because everyone has to start somewhere.