Last Thursday was the 18-35 munch, an event that has exploded in size at this point, and now is pulling in quite the large group. We’re meeting in a larger bar now, and with our general scale I’m having to discourage older persons from attending.
We had a few old people slip in this time, and older gentleman get turned away, accusing me of being hostile when it’s his first munch ever- though there were a lot of folk of that age group so I’m not sure who of the older folk that was or even if the poor bastard was actually 34 and well weathered. The thing is, I don’t set out to make old people feel bad- the age limit is in place because gatherings of mostly 40+ aged people scare the 19 and 20 year olds away. And there are not so many options for the latter group. I’m not going to throw the 36 year olds out, but neither do I want this to turn into an all ages thing.
Especially sad, a lot of the older folk who sent me courtesy emails missed the point. Telling me that they liked younger people or looked young wasn’t really the subject for the limits- it’s not intended to be face control.
It’s an organization challenge. For one thing we’re pretty top heavy, with a big crowd, and everyone wanting something as cheap as possible, but with food and good mingling. A part of my fantasizes about saying screw it and not holding the event anymore, passing it onto someone else. And yet I might as well stick with it- it won’t organize itself.
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My local TNG group has similar problems on occasion. One guy in particular feels like he generally connects better with the younger crowd, but he isn’t allowed in. Luckily there’s a all ages rope event that a lot of the TNGers also attend.
What I do find interesting is that the group does a discussion meeting every month on a specific fetish or type of play and they often invite people over the age of 35 to run (because of their experience with the kink). Some do, some tell the group to fuck off.
I’m going to throw a link to your blog into the general link bank.
Yeah, Montreal doesn’t have a very organized youth-and-kink group, so there’s lots of drama to wrangle. Oh well.
Thanks! I added yours to my site as well.